Text reading: Friendsgiving. Surrounded by orange and yellow botanicals.

Thanksgiving has been celebrated annually in the United States since 1863, when Abraham Lincoln began the presidential tradition of proclaiming a day of Thanksgiving to be celebrated in November. Thanksgiving didn’t settle firmly on a date until the 1940s, when FDR and Congress set the fourth Thursday in November as Thanksgiving (learn more about the history of Thanksgiving – and the role that the editor of Godey’s Lady’s Book had in making it a national holiday, in this blog post).

Despite the enduring popularity of Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving (a portmanteau of friends and Thanksgiving), a much younger holiday, is growing increasingly popular. According to Merriam-Webster, the term Friendsgiving first appeared in print in 2007, though it likely was used colloquially before then. In 2020, Friendsgiving was officially added to the Merriam-Webster dictionary (and appears in the new dictionary published on November 18, 2025, which is only the 12th edition published since 1898). 

Friendsgiving is often celebrated by groups of friends, who often are unable to return home for the traditional Thanksgiving holiday. Other Friendsgivings are held by people who will return home for Thanksgiving, but still wish to celebrate together. Friendsgiving is, by design, a flexible holiday, so each celebration can be whatever the participants want it to be. It is increasingly popular amongst younger adults, especially those who are in college, or living away from their families, allowing them to engage in their favorite traditions, while changing things up a bit. 

Freed from the tradition surrounding traditional Thanksgivings, Friendsgiving encourages people to create new traditions. This could be new food (maybe you only serve soups or sushi, instead of the traditional turkey) or new activities (perhaps you watch movies or play board games).

Interested in celebrating Friendsgiving? Check out our collection of cookbooks here. Want to host a movie night as part of your Friendsgiving celebrations? Check out our movie display on the fourth floor!

Regardless of if you celebrate Friendsgiving, Thanksgiving, Hanksgiving (read more about that holiday here), or just enjoy the extra few days off before finals, we wish you the best!